Near Fatal Bicycle Accident Was Actually a Mammoth Gift

My near fatal bicycle accident on July 11th of 2002 changed my life for the better. You read that correctly, that fatal day was actually a mammoth gift in disguise.

All I remember was cresting the hill before descending into the blind curve. There are glimpses of memory in the emergency room with my wife, Lotus.

After that, it was waking up in the hospital, a brace on my neck with a morphine drip in my arm. The car had been going 30 miles per hour. I was doing 20+. I evidently totaled the ‘96 Toyota Corolla with my body. At those speeds, the survival rate is about 10 percent. (Click on the picture to get a true idea just how badly the bike was damaged.  This was a HEAVY DUTY steel touring bicycle.)

Most of us need something big to push us out of our comfort zone and make us look for something beyond comfort.

For me, it was the accident that happened when I was 46 years old. I was incredibly fortunate. I spent five days in the trauma center with many broken bones, but no damage to my brain or internal organs. Once I recovered, I realized my being alive was a miracle. I also realized that when I do die, I want to know I’ve made a difference in the world. At the time I was teaching people how to program leading edge telecommunications systems. That made a real impact on the lives of people – NOT. I wanted the work I did to be about something bigger.

After the Accident

I was out of the trauma center and was sent home in less than a week, walking on crutches in 3 days and back on a bicycle in 10 weeks.

You are probably asking yourself

Why would you get back on a bicycle after that?

I had no fear getting back on the bicycle but I had a lot of fear driving an automobile.  I ride my bicycle on low traffic roads but I drive my automobile on busy thoroughfares. It was the traffic that scared me.

This event turned out to be a blessing.  My son had just graduated from high school and he was home with me as I recuperated.

We spent the next two months having lots of discussions about what college would be like. For those of you who have raised teenagers, you have no idea what they actually hear and what actually gets to the brain.

Four years later, when he came home after graduation before getting a job I realized he actually listened!! Those two months turned out to be golden and could never be replaced. By hitting the car I was given some special time with my son.

Return to Work

Within 4 months, I was flying to China and then to Korea to run classes in Shenzhen, Nanjing, Shanghai and Seoul. As I went through security at various Chinese airports, the titanium screws in my hip would set off the metal detectors. Boy, was this fun! I even had the joy of being right in the middle of the SARS outbreak. (I did not get sick!)  That is when it hit me.  WTF. Why am I doing this??

I was 46 years old.  My only child was off to college and I had that fully funded. The high-tech startup I worked for had been acquired by Lucent Technologies, which was in the process of imploding but I received enough in retention bonuses to pay off the mortgage on the house. I had no business being alive much less flying around the world teaching people to design telecommunications systems.

I decided to make a Career Pivot.

The following year I would volunteer for a layoff so that I could pursue a high school math teaching certificate, which is another story for another time.

That bicycle accident is what made me what I am today and I look at it as a mammoth gift.

 Marc Miller  

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Is Your Career Tank of Empty?

Your career tank is one of my favorite metaphors and it comes from Jason Alba from JibberJobber.com.

Jason tells a story about driving a rental car trying to get to a speaking engagement and the fuel gauge is almost on empty. We know if we are driving our car what that means. When my 2003 Honda Element gets to empty I still have 2-3 gallons left. When you are driving a rental car that is totally foreign to you, how far can you drive? Jason relates that we do the same with our careers.  We usually wait until our gauge is on empty before we make a change.

Example #1 of a Career Tank on Empty

After my near fatal bicycle accident in 2002, at the age of 46, I went off to teach high school math in an Austin inner city high school. I survived my first year teaching both Algebra I and II but it left me exhausted. The whole summer was spent in recovery mode.

My second year of teaching my schedule was teaching 5 classes of Algebra II.  I was prepared with enough lesson plans to get me to November.  I was READY or I thought I was.

What was different in year 2?

• With the exception of one class, my classes were HUGE.  I had four classes with over 30 students.  My other class had only 12.  The room could accommodate about 30 students. The room was packed.
• I was assigned a new mentor.  She tried but was not very effective.  Plus, she was at the opposite end of the school.  A good 10-minute walk to get to her classroom. My Algebra II mentor that I made part of my team was right across the hallway but she was now teaching more advanced classes. I partnered with another teacher but I was helping her as much as she was helping me.
• I had one class that had 29 males and one female.  There was so much testosterone and machismo in that room it reeked behavior problems.
• I was assigned one of the biggest problem students in the school in my last class of the day.

In many ways, I was set up to fail.  I did really well until early November when depression set in. I did not follow through with the good habits I developed in my first year.  My team fell apart. Daylight saving time ended and the days became shorter.  I was going to school in the dark and leaving in the dark. My personal career tank was not full when the year started.

When the problem student in my last class threatened to cut me and he received Saturday school as punishment I said I had enough.  My tank was empty! 

I turned in my resignation and completed the first semester but was completely demoralized.  It felt like I was abandoning my kids.  I had one student tell me that he expected me to be back because I was just too good! I would come back in the spring to tutor students for the Texas end-of-year standardized exams but I would not return the next year.  My teaching career was over after three semesters of teaching.

Example #2 of a Career Tank on Empty

In December of 2007, I was hired by a sexy tech startup to develop a training and certification program. The opportunity was alluring but little did I know the hiring manager was delusional.  He thought the program could be developed and rolled out in months rather than years.

It took over 2 years to develop the 21 hours of online training, 4 certification tracks, and all on a shoestring budget. In the middle of developing the program, the great recession hit and sales growth slowed dramatically which diminished the need for the program. Management did not see it that way and the pressure to deliver grew with no additional help.

In December 2009, the company was acquired for over $400M. This is when the culture started to deteriorate rapidly. The final straw was when my boss put me in a highly unethical position telling me to hire a senior executive’s relative who was not qualified. My ethical boundaries were crossed and increased my stress levels to an unprecedented level. You can read more about this last incident in my post When Your Ethical Boundaries are Crossed.

In the fall of 2010, I made the decision to resign. I turned in my resignation on January 4th, 2011 where I attained the greatest financial gain as it related to bonuses, stock options, health insurance and vacation accrued.

Exhaustion had set in early 2010 but I worked on the plans for Career Pivot through that year. I left one year earlier than planned due to my career tank being completely on empty.

Example #3 of a Career Tank on Empty and What to Do Next

I am currently working with a client who’s tank is not empty but it is very low.

We are doing the following to prepare:

• Planning her finances to leave. I have referred her to my good friend Roger Whitney, the Retirement Answerman.
• We worked together to develop stop, drop and roll procedures to deal with her stressful relationship with her boss.
• Learning to say no at work. This will reduce here stress and could eventually lead to her being laid off but that is part of the plan.

She is working on healing at work. I previously have written on the importance of reducing your stress before you start looking to make a career pivot. I wrote about this topic in the post Hate Your Job, Miserable, and No One Will Hire You?

We are working together on a total plan, which includes finances, where to live next, and career before her career tank goes to empty.

Are You Waiting for Your Career Tank to Reach Empty?

In the first two examples, I did not take care of myself and I waited for my career tank to go to empty. In both cases, it took me over six months to destress and be able to move forward.

Have you waited for your tank to go to empty?  If you have please leave a comment below with your story.

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5th Anniversary of Career Pivot

February 13, 2017, marks the 5th anniversary of the Career Pivot brand and website.

It was 5 years ago that this website was launched with the intention to support baby boomers in their career ambitions.

That next year CareerPivot.com was selected for the Forbes Top 100 Career website list. What I found surprising then was that there were very few websites dedicated to the cause of helping baby boomers. I wrote a post in September of 2013 called Forbes Top 100 Career Websites List Dissected and later in October I wrote Are Baby Boomers Ignored by the Career Industry?

Until very recently, baby boomers were the largest segment of the working population. Millenials have passed us and it appears that baby boomers have started to retire in droves, at least according to the article publish in Bloomberg.com titled Older Americans Are Retiring in Droves – The exodus of the baby boomers from the work force resumes.

Are We Still Ignored?

Hannah Morgan, aka the Career Sherpa, released her list of the top 50+ Career Website List a few weeks back.  She only listed 3 websites dedicated to the Over 50 Job Search:

• AARP – AARP’s job expert, Kerry Hannon, covers issues that the older job seeker has to know in order to compete. You’ll find all the issues you need to take into consideration while hunting down your next job as a more seasoned professional. You should listen to my interview with Kerry on the Repurpose Your Career Podcast.
• My Lifestyle Career – My Lifestyle Career written by Nancy Collamer, offers advice for people over 50 on how to transition into a new career before retirement, often referred to as “second act” careers.  Nancy also writes for Next Avenue  (PBS site for people over 50).
• CareerPivot – Over course, CareerPivot was on the list!

She did not list NextAvenue.org , the PBS website that focuses on Baby Boomers but with a much bigger focus: money & security, health & wellbeing, caregiving and much more.

So the answer is still … YES!

Career Pivot 5th Anniversary

I am running my 1st annual Career Pivot readers survey. My good friend Dara Quackenbush played grammar police on me and told me it cannot be the 1st annual because it is the 1st survey. Next year it can be the 2nd annual reader’s survey.

If you have not taken the survey, please take it now as it will help shape what happens with Career Pivot.

Whats Next

2017 is the year Career Pivot becomes a membership website. There will be a free side that will continue on as you see it today. There will be a paid side that will include a monthly subscription. My goal is to keep the fee modest.

In a couple of weeks, we will be publishing the results of the reader survey. We are approaching 100 respondents and it is pretty obvious there is a great need for both community support and coaching without incurring the cost of one on one coaching.

When you take the survey, I will ask if you are willing to participate in a pilot group to aide in developing the direction of the website function and mission. If you have already taken the survey and still want to participate, just contact me by clicking here and letting me know you want to participate.

Help me help you by taking the survey.

Happy 5th anniversary! Let’s celebrate!

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1st Annual Career Pivot Reader Survey

As the Career Pivot brand and website approaches it’s 5th anniversary, I thought it would be a good time to run our very first reader survey.

The website traffic continues to grow and we should soon be crossing the 25,000 visitors per month threshold. The e-mail list will soon crossing the 4,000 subscriber threshold and is growing rapidly.

Reader Survey Sections

Demographics

I want to know who you are:

• Gender
• Age range
• Employment status
• Location by continent

In my career, where I have traveled the world, the one thing I can honestly say I have learned, is no matter who I think the audience is … it is always different.

How You Use the Website

I want to know:

• How frequently do you come to the website?
• Are you subscriber via e-mail?
• What are your favorite topics?
• How do you reach the website? LinkedIn, FaceBook, Twitter, E-mail….
• Do you read the BoomerJobTips post which comes out on Saturday, and how often?
• What do like best about the website?
• Is there anything you would like to me to address?
• What can be eliminated?

My big question for you is — Should I continue to produce the BoomerJobTips post and maintain the BoomerJobTips page? The source material for BoomerJobTips has changed over the last year. It has moved from mostly curated content from around the web, to 30-40% is curated content but over half comes from the archives of the Career Pivot blog. The archive contains over 400 posts which never go out of date.

Career Pivot Futures

I plan to launch a membership section of the Career Pivot website in the 2nd half of 2017. I have not figured out how to clone myself and probably never will. (Boy would that be scary if I could.)

I would like to know:

• Would a monthly membership be of interest? I want to keep the membership price modest.
• Would you be interested in helping me define what is included? I would guarantee a very low monthly membership fee for life in exchange for your participation in the development and launch.

My goal is build an online community where those in the 2nd half of life can come for career support from both the community and myself. I have served on the board of directors of Launch Pad Job Club for 10 years. The organization has served over 15,000 job seekers, most in the 2nd half of life, over the last 15+ years. Many have returned multiple times because of the community it has created.

I want to do the same with the Career Pivot website. The goal is to create a supportive community.

Take the Survey

Please take a moment and take the survey. If you respond affirmatively to the question about your willingness to participate in building this community, you will be asked for your e-mail address.

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