Knowing Your Value or The Stealth Competitor

I have a female client who sent me the book “Knowing Your Value” by Mika Brzezinski and told me that it would help me understand some of my female clients.

The book is by a television journalist who never negotiated for what she was worth or, in the terms I use, for what she wanted.  This ties in directly into Step 5 of the Cure for Career Insanity which is “How do you negotiate for what you want and IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT MONEY!!”

In the book Ms. Brzezinski interviewed President Obama’s senior adviser Valerie Jarrett.

Ms. Brzezinski writes:

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As a female and an African-American, Jarrett says she always expected to face obstacles in the workplace: “My parents raised me to think because I was a girl and because I was black I was going to work twice as hard. They did it with no chip on their shoulder — it was a just a fact of life, get used to it. Don’t try to change what it is, just work twice as hard.”

So she says that’s what she did.  She worked hard and kept her head down.  But Jarrett didn’t expect that working hard would not automatically lead to advancement and better pay.

I felt like if I was deserving, then my boss should recognize that I was deserving.” — Valerie Jarrett

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This is a trend I call the Stealth Competitor. It is almost exclusively a female issue and the book covers this topic in detail.  What I have found is that many–not all, but many–women will work hard and expect to get  recognition without ever having to ask for it out loud.  They are stealth because their efforts to compete in the workplace are almost hidden. One can assume that they have no need of personal gain. They’re just working hard for the common good.

What is worse is the book documents over and over that the worst abusers of these diligent women were female managers of female employees.

It is interesting that as a guy I saw myself in this book.

In my last corporate gig, as I was completing a major assignment pay raises were handed out.  The pay raise was puny.  I made it very clear to my boss that he would have to do much better than that.  After all, I had taken a major pay cut to work for this startup, then I had saved my boss’s butt by rolling out my project on a shoe string budget with excellent quality. I want to be paid fairly.  He made good with a 30% pay increase that got me parity with what I had made before in high tech.  I later learned I was still paid much less than my peers.

Brezinski clearly states men will stand up for themselves but women need to learn to do this in their own way and not imitate men.

Ladies, does this ring true?  What have you experienced?

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Career Insanity – Negotiating for what you want – money!

Negotiate for what you wantBefore I get started please go and watch my Cure for Career Insanity video.  I need two things from you.

  1. Watch the video as long as it interests you.  YouTube will not give me statistics until there are 300 views. Please give it view!
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Negotiating for what you want!

In a previous post, I asked you to develop a list of non-financial items that you want in your next position.  This could be anything from childcare options to a proper desk chair.

Next comes financial requirements.

Never ever tell them what you currently make or what you want! Never! Never! Never!

Know what you are worth!  Talk to peers.  The world has changed and people will talk about compensation.  Look at the entire compensation.  Salary, benefits, 401(k) match, stock option, employee stock purchase plans……..

Check some of these websites for salary comparisons:

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When you are given an offer never ever accept it on the same day. If they insist on a immediate answer, then walk away as fast as you can!  The answer is no.

If the offer is low, tell them you want more.  If they ask how much more do you want, you respond I want to be compensated fairly.  If they insist on an answer tell them you want to be compensated fairly. Do not take the bait!

Remember the non-financial requirements are likely more important than the financial ones!

Negotiate on the non-financial items first!

Once they have made an offer, they have made a commitment to hiring you.  They will not easily walk away. Use it to your advantage. It often turns out money is the least important negotiating point but the one we put the most emphasis on!

We will finish Step 5 in the next post.

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50 Amazing Numbers About Today’s Economy

I am a huge fan of The Motley Fool website and today they had an amazing article titled 50 Amazing Numbers About Today’s Economy.  I want to comment on just a few of the numbers in the list.

49. According to economist Tyler Cowen, “Thirty years ago, college graduates made 40 percent more than high school graduates, but now the gap is about 83 percent.”

I had a near fatal bicycle accident almost 10 years ago where I hit a car head on where our combined speeds exceeded 50 mph.  I went off and taught high school math for two years at an inner city high school.  You can read about that career pivot here. Maybe 10% of my juniors and seniors would go to a 4 year college.  It was shocking to understand their lack of financial and emotional resources to get a college education.

46. In 2010, nearly half of Americans lived in a household that received direct government benefits. That’s up from 37.7% in 1998.

Teaching at a high school where 90% of my students were poor taught me a lot about government benefits. It is not pretty!

43. About the same number of people was awarded bachelor’s degrees in 2010 as filed for personal bankruptcy (1.6 million).

I am in my mid-fifties and I have more friends my age who have been wiped out financially by these last two recessions. I started this business because I rode out both recessions as successful high tech startups.  I was blessed.

40. In 2009, 5% of Americans accounted for 50% of all health care costs.

37. The number of Americans who don’t have health insurance: 49.9 million.

I have decided to leave the corporate world to be an entrepreneur.  I cannot buy private health insurance for my wife because of pre-existing condition that cost $10/month to treat. We are applying for the Texas High Risk pool insurance where we will pay $481/month for a $7500 deductible policy. This is ridiculous.

30. Americans age 60 and older owe $36 billion in student loans.

I wrote last year about the plight of baby boomers and mortgages but this scares me that we also have enormous student loans.

15. Total government employment has shrunk by almost 700,000 since 2009.

I am assuming a lot of this is state governments which have been shedding employees to balance budgets.  My son works in Washington DC for a large government agency.  There is a surge of retirement at the federal level.

9. Adjusted for inflation, the bursting of the housing bubble destroyed wealth equal to half a 1950s America.

3. The combined assets of Wal-Mart‘s (NYSE: WMT  ) Walton family is equal to that of the bottom 150 million Americans.

We all know there is a tremendous financial inequity in the US today. I live in Austin Texas where we did not see the bubble or the burst in the housing market. Most of my kids when I taught high school bought most of their clothes at Wal-Mart.

Read the entire list.  I will get back to the Cure for Career Insanity tomorrow.

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Assumptions – Be careful when making a Career Pivot

This is a great time to talk about all of the assumptions I had made up to this point and the ones I had already made but was not aware of them just yet.

There are two kinds of assumptions:

  1. Conscious
  2. Unconscious

When we make conscious assumptions we are aware of them when making decisions.  It is the unconscious decisions that bite us in the a…

Let’s take about the unconscious assumptions I had already made:

  • I would be accepted in the first certification program.  It had not dawned on me that I would get rejected.
  • The fastest path to getting to the classroom was the best.  I chose the Alternative Certification route because it was the fastest.  I was not the best.  I made this assumption unconsciously.
  • The hiring process for teachers is just like getting hired in a corporation. Boy was I wrong.

My next surprise came in the new teacher academy in the days leading up to school starting.  My school district ran a multi-day orientation and training for teachers new to the district the days leading up to school starting.  We would learn about normal policies and procedures from the district.  I had made one more assumption come to light.

I had my wife, son and myself on a COBRA health insurance policy from my previous employer.  It was good insurance and even through pricey I had put little thought on getting off of it.  I assumed that once I was hired by a school district I would put my family on the school districts health plan.  It would be affordable — right??

The school district contributed $250/month for the teachers health insurance and nothing for children and spouse. The demographics of school districts are largely female with the majority in child baring ages.  School district policies are expensive. My monthly contribution would be double of my COBRA payment. My monthly deduction was over $1,000/month.  My take home before before health benefits were deducted was only $2,500/month. OMG!!

What I learned was most teachers had their children covered under their spouses employers plan.  I did not have that choice as my wife was self employed.   I had a good friend where both he and his wife worked for the school district.  They bought separate high deductible policies for their children because the school districts plan was cost prohibitive.

I stayed on COBRA for the next year or so.  Bought a high deductible policy for our son. We then chose the least amount of coverage from the school district for my wife and I.  I tried to buy high deductible health insurance for my wife and I  but we were turned down.

All of this was because I made a critical assumption on health insurance costs.

As you make your plans sit down and explore any and all assumptions you are making.  I will discuss more assumptions I made in later posts.

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Last of the Baby Boomer Facts

This is the last post of Baby Boomer Facts. I will be sending out the complete list to those who have registered this weekend.  I will be looking for feedback.

  1. Top 5-10 that you think are the most important
  2. The fact that surprised you the most
  3. The fact that scares you the most

Looking forward to your feedback.  I will be sending this out this weekend!

Facts

Fact #1

The earliest retirement age will probably be raised in the next few years because of the growing number of applicants and decreasing funds.  The earliest eligibility age would increase from 62 to 65.

I know this is not really a fact  but should not surprise you.  Click on the link to read the data behind this statement.

Fact #2

In 2020, it is expected that Social Security, Medicare, Medicaid, and the interest of the U.S. debt will consume 92 cents of every dollar that the federal government brings in.

This comes from a CNN Money article and this really scares me!

 

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2 Baby Boomer Facts on Small Business Ownership

I am getting close to the end of the Baby Boomer Fact series of posts. I should have a preliminary version out this week.  If you register you will get to review and have input on the final product.

Baby boomers have been and will continue to be heavily involved in small businesses.  There are two trends that are in opposition to one another.Small Business Owner

Fact #1

9 million of America’s 15 million business owners were born in or before 1964, resulting in one business owner turning 65 every 57 seconds — and the potential for a tsunami of businesses for sale.

Does this surprise you?  The challenge for these baby boomers is most of their retirement savings are in their small business.  The current banking climate it is difficult for them to sell because of financing.  How can they retire?

Fact #2

84 percent of new businesses are formed by baby boomers! As many baby boomers are figuring out that they cannot retire they are taking their retirement nest eggs and investing them into themselves. Does this surprise you?

For many of us, working for ourselves the rest of our lives is the way to go.

What we have here is successful baby boomer small business owners who cannot sell their businesses in order to retire and corporate refuges are starting their businesses.

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3 Baby Boomer Facts with InfoGraphics

Ladies and Gentlemen,

Thank you for all of the sharing of the previous posts which can be found at:

Here are three more baby boomer facts with the graphic that will go into the InfoGraphic presentations. Click on the text below each image to get the supporting article.

The fact is many baby boomers will never get out of debt and the fastest growing demographic seeking credit counseling are seniors.

When you apply for social security when you are 62 you lose 25% of your lifetime benefits compared to applying at your full retirement age.

Multigenerational FamilyThis is not necessarily bad.  In the TED talk by Dan Buettner “How to live to 100+” one of common factors of communities with many 100+ citizens were multi-generational households.

I am looking for feedback.  Please make a comment on whether this resonates with you. I want YOU TO IDENTIFY THE KEY ISSUES.

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4 Facts about Baby Boomers, Medicare and Life Expectancy

This is the Sixth in a series of baby boomer facts:

The next few blog posts will give you a taste of what is happening.

Elderly and Medical Care

Here are four facts as they relate to Baby Boomers, Medicare and Life Expectancy:

  1. In 2050, there will be 9 million people over 85, or triple what we have now.
  2. According to 2009 data from the Census Bureau, the population of America that is 65 years old and over is projected to increase by 79 percent from 2010 to 2030, representing 19 percent of the total population by 2030.  As of 2009, the 65 and older group represented 12.6% of the population.
  3. In 2006, there were 38 million people were receiving Medicare benefits.  In 2010, 47 million people received Medicare benefits.
  4. Since 1964, Social Security and Medicare have risen from 2.5 percent of the nation’s GDP to 6.9 percent.

How long do you plan on living? 85, 95 0r are you going to be a centurion. This is a key decision in your financial planning. This is a key decision that is described in the Scott Burns Article on social security planning.

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4 Facts on Baby Boomers and Social Security

This is the fifth in a series of baby boomer facts:

The next few blog posts will give you a taste of what is happening.

Social Security CardHere are four facts as they relate to Baby Boomers and the Social Security:

  1. Starting on January 1st 2012, 10,000 boomers will become eligible for full retirement benefits every day until December 31, 2031 (when the last baby boomer turns 67).
  2. In 2010, 45% of those who applied for social security retirement were 62 years old.  These applicants only get $750 of every $1000 that they would have earned if they had waited to their full retirement age of 66, losing 25% of their retirement.
  3. The same report said that 3 out of every 4 people who applied for social security in 2010 were below their “full retirement age” of 66.
  4. In 2020, it is expected that Social Security, Medicare, Medicaid, and the interest of the US debt will take up 92 cents of every dollar that the federal government brings in.

What are your plans for Social Security? By the way there was a great Scott Burns Article on this recently.

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1st Summary of Baby Boomer Facts with Infographics

This week I wrote three blogs on baby boomer facts. They were on:

I started researching this topic because I saw a lot of bits and pieces about the situation but nothing comprehensive.  I will be building infographics that hopefully will make this a compelling story.  Here are a few of the graphics that I have built.

Let me know what you think about these graphics!  Comment below if you like them or find them confusing or ……

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